Craft the Perfect Wedding Card: 7 Steps & 45 Handpicked Wishes to Inspire You

you may not know what to write on it. Don't worry, you've come to the right place.

We have carefully selected a variety of blessings and messages suitable for writing on wedding cards. Whether you are attending the wedding of a child, family member, close friend or colleague, you can find just the right blessing here. Remember, tailoring your card is key: what you write to your favourite brother may not be suitable for a work colleague or acquaintance. Similarly, the wishes on a bridal shower card should not be exactly the same as those on a formal wedding card. To make it easier for you to find the right tone and expression, we have divided the wishes into categories, so you can quickly select the one that best expresses your feelings.

Why is “what to write” so important?

Convey deep emotions

A well-prepared greeting will let the newlyweds truly feel your expectations, respect and joy for their future, and also give them more gratitude and warmth on their wedding day.

Demonstrate personal relevance

Incorporating fun anecdotes, shared experiences or appreciation for the newlyweds' unique qualities into the greeting card will not only make the blessing more intimate, but also make them feel cherished.

Have a positive impact

A heartfelt message will not only lift the spirits of the newlyweds, but also provide them with an indelible memory of the special happiness and support they received when they look at the card again in the future.

Reflect etiquette and respect

Choosing the right words and expressions according to your relationship with the couple will not only show your sincerity and thoughtfulness, but also indicate the high regard you hold for the wedding and the couple.

Echo the wedding atmosphere

As a very meaningful moment in life, the wedding deserves words that represent joy, commitment and celebration, so that the greeting card becomes an important witness to this celebration.

A wedding greeting card is the best way to tell the newlyweds how wonderful they are and show how important they are in your heart. It will often be treasured by the couple for a long time, and there is even a chance that it will be included in their wedding album, becoming a warm and precious memory.

Preparations before writing a wedding greeting card

Determine the style and tone of the greeting card

• Formal/solemn/grand
• Relaxed/humorous/playful
• Romantic/literary/poetic
• Religious or non-religious background

Collect information about the couple

• Are you familiar with the background of the couple: religious beliefs, cultural customs, preferences, etc.
• Understand the form of the wedding: indoor/outdoor, traditional/modern

Content, key points of choice of words

• Remain sincere, close to the couple or your own identity
• Depending on the closeness of the relationship, the tone can be more casual or more formal
• Don't make the greeting too long. Wedding cards usually don't have much space, so if you have a lot to say, it's best to save it for a personal letter or email.

Examples of different wedding greetings

1、General greetings

“Congratulations on your special day! May your love continue to grow with each passing year.

“Wishing you both a lifetime of joy, laughter, and endless love.

“Cheers to the newlyweds! May every day be filled with warmth and happiness.

“Here's to a beautiful beginning and an even more wonderful journey ahead.”

“May this marriage bring you both all the adventure, support, and unwavering love you deserve.”

2、Wishes from friends

“I'm so thrilled to see you both start this amazing journey together. May each day bring you closer, happier, and more in love than ever before.”

“Watching you find your perfect match has been such a joy—cheers to a lifetime of laughter, adventure, and unconditional love!”

“Here's to the two of you on this special day! I can't wait to see all the beautiful memories you'll create as husband and wife.”

“From late-night chats to weekend getaways, we've shared so many great moments. Now, I'm beyond excited to witness this next big chapter in your story!”

“Congratulations on tying the knot! Wishing you endless happiness, heartfelt adventures, and a love that only grows deeper through the years.”

3、Blessings from siblings

“It's been an incredible journey growing up with you, and I couldn't be prouder to see the amazing person you've become. Wishing you both a lifetime filled with love, laughter, and endless happiness.”

“From sharing toys and secrets to celebrating this special day, I'm so grateful to call you my sibling. May your marriage be filled with adventure, understanding, and unwavering support.”

“Watching you say 'I do' makes me remember all those childhood dreams we used to talk about. Now they're coming true, and I couldn't be happier for you two!”

“To my dear brother/sister: you've found someone who truly understands your heart and your humor. I'm thrilled for the new chapter you're starting—cheers to forever and always!”

“We've been through so many chapters side by side, and I'm beyond excited to see you begin this new one. May your marriage be a beautiful journey full of respect, growth, and endless love.”

4、Blessings from parents and elders

We couldn't be prouder of the loving and thoughtful person you've become. As you begin this new chapter with your spouse, may every day bring you both deeper understanding, unwavering support, and endless love.

Watching you grow and seeing how perfectly your partner complements you has been one of life's greatest gifts. May your marriage be filled with laughter, respect, and countless shared adventures.

From the day you came into our lives, you've been a source of joy and inspiration. Now that you're starting a family of your own, we wish you both a home filled with warmth, trust, and unbreakable bonds.

Today, you're making a beautiful commitment to walk hand in hand through life's ups and downs. We'll always be here cheering you on, offering advice if you need it, and celebrating every milestone along the way.

It warms our hearts to see you two pledge your love and support to one another. May you cherish every moment, never stop discovering each other's strengths, and create a lifetime of cherished memories together.

5、Wishes from colleagues and neighbors

“Congratulations on your wedding day! Wishing you both a lifetime of love, laughter, and lasting happiness.”

“So happy to see you two tie the knot—may every day ahead bring you closer and fill your home with joy.”

“Cheers to your new life together! May all your shared dreams and plans come true in the years to come.”

“Sending warm wishes on this special occasion. May your marriage be filled with understanding, friendship, and endless support.”

“Best wishes from a fellow coworker/neighbor—may your journey as a married couple be nothing short of amazing!”

6、Funny and interesting blessings

When creating these blessings, pay attention to the balance between “joking” and “respect” to ensure that the newlyweds can feel your sincerity and happiness without misunderstanding.

“Here's to a lifetime of shared Netflix passwords, midnight snacks, and endlessly trying to decide where to order takeout. Congratulations, you two!”

“They say marriage is a walk in the park—if that park has roller coasters, snack stands, and the occasional detour. Have fun on this wild (but awesome) ride!”

“Cheers to finding someone who will laugh at your jokes (even the bad ones), share the last slice of pizza, and still choose to marry you. Now, that's true love!”

“Remember, marriage is basically the most exciting team project you'll ever work on. Just don't forget who's the project manager—kidding, it's definitely a joint effort!”

“Wishing you both a lifetime of giggles, grocery store dance-offs, and finding new reasons to fall in love—like matching sweatpants on laundry day!”

7、Wedding wishes you can't attend

“Congratulations on your big day! Even though we can't be there in person, we're sending all our love and best wishes your way.”

“We're so thrilled for you both! We wish we could celebrate by your side, but know that we're cheering you on from afar.”

“Cheers to your happily ever after! It breaks my heart not to be there, but I'll raise a glass in your honor here at home.”

“Wishing you a day filled with love and laughter. Can't wait to see the photos and hear all the stories when we meet up next!”

“Congratulations, newlyweds! We're missing you on this special day but can't wait to catch up soon and hear every magical detail.”

9、Religious blessings

“May God's abundant grace guide you both in this new chapter, filling your home with faith, love, and endless blessings.”

“As you begin your journey as husband and wife, may the Lord be the foundation of your marriage, keeping you strong in every season.”

“In the presence of the Lord, may your union reflect His unconditional love, inspiring you both to grow in faith day by day.”

“We pray that God's light shines upon your marriage, guiding your hearts to always support and uplift one another through life's joys and challenges.”

“May you find hope, strength, and peace in Christ as you build a life together, trusting that His plan for you is truly wonderful.”